Choosing the right puppy is one of the most important decisions you’ll make as a dog owner—and the step that most people rush through during the excitement of the holidays. A great match supports your lifestyle, energy level, training goals, and family dynamic. A poor match can lead to stress, frustration, and long-term behavior issues.

Before bringing home a holiday puppy, ask yourself whether the Christmas season is the right moment. Puppies need consistency, a calm environment, and strong leadership from day one.

Here’s some factors to consider.

You've probably noticed how often we talk about calmness and confidence. Why? Because without those two qualities, there is no such thing as strong, consistent dog leadership. In Madison, where winter walks, busy streets, and indoor play are part of daily life, calm and confident leadership is especially important to help dogs feel secure and well-behaved at home and in public.

Dogs are incredibly intuitive. They don't follow unstable or inconsistent energy. Angry, frustrated, nervous, overly excited, fake, or mean — dogs can feel all of it. And while you might get moments of obedience through rewards (what we call bribery), you won’t earn genuine trust, respect, or a dog’s deep desire to follow your lead.

At Building Bonds Dog Training, we believe that successful obedience training starts long before you teach your dog a command. It begins with you—specifically, your energy, emotions, and attitude.

At the heart of effective dog training lies one essential element: the relationship between you and your dog. True training success begins not with commands or treats, but with understanding—understanding your dog’s instincts, psychology, and unique motivations, and responding to them in a way that builds trust and respect.