If you’re dealing with pulling on walks, barking at every sound, reactivity around other dogs, or a dog that just can’t seem to settle, it’s tempting to jump into training techniques to fix the problem.

But in our experience working with dogs and owners across the Madison area, long-term calm behavior doesn’t start with commands — it starts with daily routines.

The structure of your dog’s everyday life quietly shapes how they respond to stress, distractions, and change. When routines are unclear, inconsistent, or overstimulating, dogs struggle to self-regulate. When routines are predictable and balanced, calm behavior becomes the default.

Bringing home a new puppy or rescue dog is exciting, but the first few days are not about obedience training or fixing behavior. They are about building trust, calmness, and a clear relationship.

Before training can truly work, your dog needs to feel safe and understand that you are a calm, consistent leader. A strong bond always comes first.

Before bringing home a holiday puppy, ask yourself whether the Christmas season is the right moment. Puppies need consistency, a calm environment, and strong leadership from day one.

Here’s some factors to consider.